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It's been three months since Michael died. When The Beautiful One returned from her last visit with him and his devoted life partner Jody, she knew much more intimately the . . . [Read More]

Unruly Books: Is Home Your Happy Place? (June)

We are going to read my book Is Home Your Happy Place? together. I know, I know. How exciting might it be to read a book about clutter? Well, it's not . . . [Read More]

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Are you looking for a community of kindred spirits to share your journey?

I am looking for a woman for whom it is not enough to just weather the storm but who instead journeys into the chaotic darkness in search of herself. Regardless of whether or not you recognized the value of these life circumstances when you chose them, you lean into each challenge for the strength, passion, creativity, and wisdom, that the experiences unlock within you. You must learn, once and for all, that your heart is your trusted guide and all of your answers are within you.

While this journey brings you more into alignment with your true self, it leaves you vulnerable at times. You crave connection to the kindred spirits who are there on the journey with you; someone to help you find the light when it’s just too damn dark.

The Deep Dive Circle is a safe space for women like you, a sacred container where we will both teach you and learn from you, witness you, and also have the courage to bare our own souls in return. You need a safe place where you’ll be understood and honored, a place to explore in private before you reveal your truth  “out there” in the regular world. It is a sisterhood that will support you to call bullshit on yourself when necessary. It’s time to heal your heart and to give life to that which is written on your bones. This community of women will help you reconnect with your heart and bring it back into balance with your mind. Together, we will dance back to the truth of who we are.


Membership Fees:  Range from $25 to $35 depending on the length of your commitment to the Deep Dive Circle. Use the button below to register.

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There is nothing quite like the safety of a group like this. With each word, worlds open. I could not have predicted the value of having a safe place to process anything I am brave enough to put on the table. This is powerful stuff.  – J.D.

What can I say about the deep diving circle? I’ve never met these women. I hope to someday. Although it’s a bit scary since I feel like they are all equipped to see through my BS. And they would all call me on it, too. These women know me better/differently than most of my “real life” friends. These are people who would know if I were suppressing tears. And they would help me let it flow. And they would hold me through it.

This group gives me the space to experiment with telling my stories. The good ones and the bad ones. The ones I can tell easily and the ones almost no one knows. The ones that make me who I am, with all my flaws and weaknesses and strengths. This group gives me the space to learn that I have strengths. That sometimes, stuff sucks. Bad things happen. But we can survive it all and, maybe, eventually, get to the place where we can move beyond SURVIVAL and work toward happy. Fulfilled. Alive. – R.R. 

The Deep Diving Circle is a special place to spend meaningful time reflecting, processing, sharing, supporting, and learning from other Unrulies. We are each speaking of heartfelt topics that need to be acknowledged, spoken, and witnessed, while also exploring new understandings of old stories. I am in awe of those who are sharing this journey with me and appreciate having such an intentional focused space to continue my space healing journey. The Circle is for anyone desiring to begin, or continue, to “Make their Home their Happy Place” in every way possible. Christy is leaving the back door open; come for a month; visit with us as long as you wish. We will be here when you are ready.  – D.B.

It’s really hard to explain the magic that happens in these groups. I started with the triggers workshop last year in July and have continued to sign up because I have never felt so supported, validated and heard in my growth and healing as I do here. The Deep Dive Circle is the perfect environment for self reflection, introspection and analysis without leaving behind the power of accountability and being heard. Something incredible happens when other women can walk the path with you, challenge you and support you. I am extremely grateful for this group. – MR