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Spirit Gathering


These are chaotic times and it is easy to feel lost, overwhelmed, or invisible. But it doesn’t have to be this way. You deserve support, intuitive guidance, and the deep pleasure of a few hours with a wildly loving group of Unruly Women.

Spirit Gatherings are a luxurious rest stop along the path that is your spiritual journey. You may come into our circle feeling empty and a little out of alignment but when our time together concludes, you’ll head back out into the world with an open heart and a strong connection to your intuition. You’ll be ready for whatever lies ahead.

Each Spirit Gathering begins with a little socializing, sharing of whatever snacks and beverages (usually wine) everyone brings, and getting to know one another before settling into the intuitive group reading. After everyone feels complete, we close the circle and again enjoy a little connection time.

As for the group reading, we open circle with a reading of Oriah Mountain Dreamer’s poem “The Invitation” and then whoever is ready to play will put their inquiry on the metaphorical table. I may ask a few clarifying questions and then I will share the messages I receive. We will repeat that until everyone who wants a collaboration has had a chance to have one.

When each individual gives the gift of their collaboration in this group setting, the healing and inspiration is available to everyone present. The sacred guidance that comes through for one vibrates into the hearts and minds of the entire circle.

Note: During larger Spirit Gatherings, you may find that you “get what you need” from listening to others and decide to forgo one-on-one time. Participation is never required, but it is strongly encouraged within the time we have available.

Frequently Asked Questions

What kinds of things are acceptable to ask at a Spirit Gathering?

I’ll be honest, it feels like I’ve heard it all. I’m not sure you could bring something that wasn’t welcome. Some of the more regular topics include relationship challenges (romantic and otherwise), life purpose, health, creativity, money, and whatever other shit that weighs heavy on our hearts.

How long does a Spirit Gathering last?

We usually wrap up at about three hours. The socializing part is often a little longer for private events.

How do I know if the Spirit Gathering is right for me?

If you feel the pull when you read this page, then that’s a “yes”. If you’re unsure, try it once and see. It’s been my experience that it’s always exactly what each person needs on the day we gather.

Not sure if you’re Unruly enough? Look around the website. Read about me and the other Unrulies or a couple of blog posts. You’ll get a feeling . . . trust it.

What about men?

I’m an Unruly Woman and other Unruly Women compose most of my community, both online and here in Minneapolis. But—and it’s a big but—there are many men who are awake and doing The Work. Occasionally, one will find his way into my world and I always welcome him with open arms.

This is a powerful time. We need everyone to harness their inner Unruly Woman, not just the women. If you’re one of these exceptional Unruly Men and you want to collaborate in any way, I welcome you. And ladies, play nice. The good ones are really, really good. Make space for them and enjoy the energy they bring. We can’t get where we are headed without them.

How much does it cost to attend a Spirit Gathering?

We have two types of Spirit Gatherings–open community and private. They both work the same, except for who comes and the fee structure. Also, private Spirit Gatherings can have a specific theme or intention if desired.

Open community Spirit Gatherings are held monthly in Minneapolis, Minnesota, and wherever else The Beautiful One and I may find ourselves traveling for business or pleasure. You can find those dates on the Events page. Instead of a firm cost, there is a recommended love offering of $20 per person collected in person during the event. (If preferred, you can use the button on the right hand side of this page to send your love offering with a debit/credit card via PayPal.)

Private Spirit Gatherings may be hosted by an individual who is giving this experience as a gift to their circle of friends, family, co-workers, etc. In this case, the fee is $300 for up to 12 people. If participants are paying individually, the fee is $30 per person with a 10-person minimum. Contact me to schedule your private event and to learn more about Spirit Gatherings for larger groups.

How do I pay for our Private Spirit Gathering?

If you’re hosting the event, use this button:

If you’re attending a Private Spirit Gathering, use this button to reserve your space: